Umi Spotlight: Oreofe Adebayo

With Umi Spotlight, we are sharing the best of what other mothers have figured out both in their motherhood journey and in life.

On this edition, Oreofe Adebayo talks about parenting styles and traditions from her upbringing that she now does with her kids. She also shares her views on family planning, kids’ social media accounts as well as her experience with the healthcare system in Nigeria when she had her kids. Find out more about her and her work here

What do you miss most about your life before kids?
I miss having quality time with my spouse. And since I had my first child, I have had to cut back on my work hours, but I do miss my full time job (sometimes).

What assumptions did you have about motherhood that you found untrue after you became a mum?
I assumed that being a good mum will stop your personal growth. But that's not true.

What was the best advice you got about being a mother to your kid(s)?
Do what works for you as are led by the Holy Spirit. Don't compare your children with other kids for any reason. No single child is the same with another.

What was your experience with healthcare when you were pregnant and during the delivery of your kid(s)?